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    7/7/2008

    努力走下去我的人生

      朋友说,幸福不是等的,是要努力争取的。
        努力争取的过程,主动或被动的相识和相亲活动中,却忽然觉得每一个人本身像极了一枚筹码。那是一种悲哀,相信很多朋友都能读懂的悲哀。

      有的时候我会问自己,你到底愿意象现在这样,看过了人生种种虚假黑暗而活得小心翼翼,还是愿意象从前一样单纯盼望着实现一串串的美好?诚如佳缘里的一位会员所说的:“(对于生活)了解的越多,则承担的快乐与痛苦亦随之加倍增长,如果没有豁达的人生观,支撑如此重负是难以想象的。”

      但也正是这些懂得才让我更加学会珍惜所拥有的一切吧?张爱玲的一句话常常让我在某个时刻砰然心动。她说:“因为懂得,所以慈悲”,有了一颗体验过人生种种滋味的心,才能心怀理解,以小小的慈悲包容世界给我们的种种不完美。

      生活永远不可能给我们十全十美,所以我们向它索要很多,也同样要付出很多。但愿以一颗满怀温柔的心,可以寻到同样温柔的他,彼此包容,彼此鼓励,在茫茫人海中造出一个最温暖的拥抱。当他焦躁了,我便温情似水,笑笑地把你当成小孩子轻轻的哄;当我郁闷了,他也不要拿出大道理和我讲,我不要永远做板板正正的大女人。他要明白,真正的爱里面,实在不需要太多的理由。

      有时候真的没有信心坚信幸福的理想,因为冥冥中的天意远超出我的力量。但又无法放弃这样的愿望,若没有它,我还将以怎样的滋味去品尝每天的生活?

      所以,要努力走下去,看看上帝到底安排给我怎样的一段人生。

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